pomidorchik:

i kept reading it as:

"flirting... how bald is too bald?"

...thinking yeah..relly...how bald is too bald for a guy to be dateable..

lol...  depends on the location of the baldness?  ;)

Really, bald doesn't bother me.  I even like shaved heads, know several men with them, two to hide some baldness and one just because.   

Shura:

High standards can be very rewarding, yet equally disappointing.

1-7 are mostly just a description of a decent human being, the same qualities I want in friends.  8-10 may be a little harder to find, I guess.

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

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- Независимость - это когда в 20-й раз наступаешь на одни и те же грабли, а русские уже ни при чем....

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

Muidugi:

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

 

Or he can.   

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

 

Or he can.   

If he is not Russian, of course.

Muidugi:

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

 

Or he can.   

If he is not Russian, of course.

Even if he is (and I am not saying he is or isn't), I'm sure we can come to some amicable compromise.   

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

 

Or he can.   

If he is not Russian, of course.

Even if he is (and I am not saying he is or isn't), I'm sure we can come to some amicable compromise.   

Unless he is a muslim terrorist.

Muidugi:

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

Muidugi:

Leah:

KGBMan:

If you like it and he seems to like it - just keep doing what you doing......

Stop second guessing yourself ! 

He says he likes it, but he keeps mentioning the cooking thing.

 

Don't get discouraged. You can take some cooking classes.

 

Or he can.   

If he is not Russian, of course.

Even if he is (and I am not saying he is or isn't), I'm sure we can come to some amicable compromise.   

Unless he is a muslim terrorist.

I don't think he is.  He seems to sleep too much to have time to plan any terrorist activities.

Back on the subject of cooking, I wonder which is more important to a man.... cooked food or sex? 

Leah:

Back on the subject of cooking, I wonder which is more important to a man.... cooked food or sex? 

 food of course. sex on empty stomach is no good...

 

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 as Socrat said:

"Get married anyway, If your wife will be good, you're going to be an exception, if not - you'll become a philosopher")

neither sex or food has real importance for a man, a good wife is the best quality man can find in Woooman. The obsessity with sex ruins realtions, it sucks all the life from natural attraction, natural love and natural passion and leaves only artificial stuff. People are usually to hungry for love and satisfaction.. Tasty food also has somewhat similar influence for any person. So most of people usually become like a depressed zombie after the age of 19-25... 26-28... isn't it sad?.. maybe not, it's just like it is, picture of reality can't be sad, saddness it's something that belongs to human mind, it's not an objective quality of the world picture. :p

will you gain anything from relation with somebody who's not a good person to live with?.. no, you'll get a nasty habit to repeat the same mistake. :p

People are creatures that are able to adapt to anything, as Dostoevsky said, anything that happens automatically becomes a habit of life.

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music of meah

If you have to over-think it, then it's not right.

It wasn't right from the start.  Anytime a girl directly flirts with a guy, it's like a wide open invitation for sex.  So if the guy isn't absolutely jumping at it, it means he's not all that interested.  Hence all this crazy over-thinking. 

The way it should work is you are both flirting at the same time, and things just keep heating up, heating up, until they reach the boiling point.  You want the sexual tension to build and build until you are so hot you can hardly keep from jumping out of your clothes.

In other words, having to decide between standing at the stove versus stripping off your clothes should not be a choice you want to make.

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"Hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable."

Why should we wait for a hell, let makes it real in our lives!..) they said and created our world like it is here and apperantly now.

Trust is a glue for good relations (or sex if you wish), not that "heat" that you describe. Heat is actually an illusion that you created with a flirt like you said. And illusions are always disappear, always, without exceptions.

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music of meah

Leah:

Back on the subject of cooking, I wonder which is more important to a man.... cooked food or sex? 

Bad food is worse than bad sex. Good food is obviously much better than bad sex, though good food is sometimes even better than good sex. And of course fabulous sex is better than almost anything, except great food cooked for you by someone with whom there is also the prospect of having fabulous sex.