Alina:Leah, thank you very much. No I usually don't do that, but I do express my interest in someone directly, if there is an interest. I am a very bad "flirter" or whatever you call it.
And guys, when I said "in 20 years" - I didn't mean that someone has to wait 20 years. I ment that in 20 years I will be a different person and a better match to him: money-minding-and-counting, rational, not minding control over everything (or at least it wont matter I guess at that age).
But right now....
Anyway, it's my problem.
How are you going to be a different person ???
What will change you if you're not purposely moving in that direction ?
Ok, fine, let's assume that you will change and will be willing to get back with that man. How do you know he will be still interested ?
I'll tell you how - you keep his interest alive, that's how 
Anyhow, let's get back to eggbeater flirting - so, any takers on the exact process ?
- Независимость - это когда в 20-й раз наступаешь на одни и те же грабли, а русские уже ни при чем....